Community Living for Couples With Different Needs

In many instances as a couple ages, they have very different health challenges. One partner may have several chronic conditions while the other is generally healthy. When this happens, the healthier of the two typically takes over the role of caregiver. However, if the person’s health needs continue to increase, it can take a toll on the person who oversees their loved one’s care. 

Even if only one person in the couple needs help with the ADLs (activities of daily living) and things like medication management, moving into a senior living community together may be a good plan as well as making the transition easier. According to the AgingCare website, a good rule of thumb is that the spouse who needs a higher level of care should determine which type of community can best accommodate the couple. Moreover, Marissa Kirby, NHA, CHC, CHPC, and vice president of compliance at NEWGEN HEALTH, LLC., says, “When a couple has been married for many years, the ability to live together can make or break their decision on whether or not to move to an assisted living facility.” 

There are many benefits for both partners in a community offering assisted living including helping the couple stay together longer when one of them requires more care. The US News & World Report says it also alleviates the full burden of care from the caregiver, which improves that partner’s health and potentially improves the relationship. Both members of the couple enjoy perks such as increased social interaction and ready access to preventive health care. 

Many communities welcome couples and have various plans available such as residing in the same suite, in separate units in different wings, or in separate semi-private rooms to help ensure they get the personal space they need while maintaining their relationship. In this scenario each person receives and pays for the level of care they need.  

At MorningStar at West San Jose, our integrated senior living model seamlessly combines independent and assisted living under one roof to promote smooth transitions and allow residents to age in place with confidence. Our stylish suites come in a choice of floor plans and we are happy to welcome couples to our beautiful home.  In addition, our Reflections Neighborhood provides individualized, compassionate care for those with memory loss diseases. All residents enjoy peace of mind, personalized support, and a vibrant community designed to meet their changing needs.  Contact us or visit our website to learn more. 

MorningStar takes tremendous pride in the reputation we have earned for excellence and authenticity since our inception in 2003.  We believe the human capacity to grow, to learn and to contribute is ageless; and we act upon that truth daily, as we care for, inspire, and love the residents under our roof. Contact us for more information about the finest senior living in San Jose.

Modern Assisted Living: Supportive Living Without Losing Yourself

For many families, the phrase “assisted living” still brings up images that do not match what these communities look like today. Modern assisted living is designed to feel more like a supportive neighborhood than an institution, offering just enough help so seniors can stay active, comfortable, and confident in daily life.

Comfortable Homes, Not Hospital Rooms

Most of these settings offer private or semi private apartments, often with a bedroom, living area, and bathroom. Residents bring their own furniture, photos, and keepsakes so the space feels familiar. The goal is to create a home that reflects the person who lives there, with staff nearby to help when needed rather than hovering in the background.

Daily routines are usually flexible. Residents decide when to wake up, what to wear, and how to spend their time. Help is there for tasks that have become difficult, such as bathing, dressing, or managing medications, but independence is encouraged wherever it is safe.

Support That Lightens the Load

As people age, the list of small daily tasks can become exhausting. They can take many of those responsibilities off a senior’s shoulders. Typical services include:

• Prepared meals in a dining room or delivered to the apartment

• Housekeeping and laundry

• Transportation to appointments and errands

• On site staff to respond to urgent needs

Freeing up this energy allows seniors to focus on activities they enjoy rather than worrying about chores.

Community and Connection

A major strength of assisted living is the built in social life. Instead of relying on occasional visits or rare outings, residents are surrounded by others in a similar stage of life. Most communities offer calendars filled with choices such as exercise classes, game nights, crafts, educational talks, music, and outings.

Simply seeing familiar faces in the hallway or at meals can reduce feelings of isolation that are common when living alone. 

Care That Adapts Over Time

Needs rarely stay the same. Good programs revisit each person’s support plan regularly, adjusting as health or preferences change. Someone might start with only meal and housekeeping services, then gradually add help with bathing or mobility if needed.

Many retirement communities work closely with families and medical providers to coordinate appointments, medications, and follow up, helping residents stay healthier and families feel more informed.

Every community has its own character. Some feel more like a busy village, others like a quiet residence. Visiting in person, tasting a meal, and talking with residents can reveal whether the atmosphere feels welcoming. For seniors who need more ongoing care, a retirement home Portland that offers assisted living services can provide both safety and a sense of home.

When viewed through a modern lens, assisted living is less about giving things up and more about gaining a supportive place to live life fully, with the reassurance that help is available when it is needed most.

Telehealth Isn’t Coming, It’s Here. Master It.

Doctor visits no longer have to mean sitting in waiting rooms or arranging complicated transportation. Telehealth, or virtual health care delivered by phone or video, has become a standard part of medical care. For seniors, learning to use telehealth comfortably can make it easier to stay on top of health concerns, ask questions early, and involve family members in care, whether living at home or in assisted living Idaho Falls.

What Telehealth Can Do

Telehealth appointments can handle much more than many people expect. Depending on the provider, virtual visits may be used to:

• Review test results and adjust medications

• Discuss new symptoms or side effects

• Follow up after a hospital stay or procedure

• Receive guidance for chronic conditions like diabetes or high blood pressure

In many cases, these visits supplement in person appointments rather than replacing them entirely, giving seniors more frequent access to care without extra travel.

Getting Comfortable with the Technology

Telehealth usually requires a phone, tablet, or computer and a reliable internet connection. The idea can feel intimidating at first, but a few simple steps help build confidence:

• Practice making a regular video call with a trusted family member or friend

• Learn how to adjust volume, camera angle, and lighting so the provider can see and hear clearly

• Keep devices charged and update software when prompted

Family members, neighbors, or staff in senior living environments can often assist with the initial setup and run a practice session before the real appointment.

Preparing for a Virtual Visit

Planning ahead makes telehealth appointments smoother and more effective. Helpful preparations include:

• Writing down current medications, including dosages and over the counter items

• Listing symptoms, when they began, and what makes them better or worse

• Preparing specific questions or concerns to discuss

Having a notebook nearby during the visit allows quick notes on instructions, follow up plans, or changes to treatment.

Creating a Private, Calm Space

Privacy matters just as much online as it does in the doctor’s office. Seniors can:

• Choose a quiet room and close the door

• Use headphones if background noise is unavoidable

• Ask others in the home not to interrupt during the appointment

Good lighting and a comfortable chair help make the experience feel more like a real conversation and less like a technical challenge.

Involving Supportive People

Telehealth makes it easier to include distant family members in care. With permission, adult children or trusted friends can join the call, help remember details, and ask questions. This can be particularly helpful for those managing multiple conditions or medications.

Knowing When In Person Care Is Needed

Telehealth is a powerful tool, but it is not right for every situation. Sudden chest pain, difficulty breathing, severe injuries, or signs of stroke still require immediate, in person medical attention. Many providers will also schedule in office visits for physical exams or tests that cannot be done virtually.

Telehealth is now a regular part of modern health care. By taking time to understand the basics, practicing with the technology, and preparing for each visit, seniors can use it to stay more connected to their providers while in assisted living, reduce unnecessary travel, and feel more in control of their health.

MorningStar at West San Jose Offers Luxury Assisted Living

As a vibrant 55+ community, MorningStar at West San Jose offers stylish assisted living suites in a choice of studio, one-bedroom and two-bedroom floor plans. Suites are equipped with kitchenettes, handicapped-accessible bathrooms, emergency call systems and private heating & air conditioning. Basic cable TV and utilities are included as is weekly housekeeping, laundry and linen service and daily spot cleaning.  

Assisted living is for seniors who require help with the activities of daily living (ADLs) to improve their quality of life. As a resident, you will have a personalized plan created for you, and updated as needed. Around-the-clock care managers, access to licensed nurses and medication management are just a few of the many services we provide to ensure your safety and to meet your needs.

Many residents report being surprised by how full their lives are after a move into an assisted living community. Moreover, rather than lose their independence as many fear such a move would do, most are pleased to discover once they get the daily care they need, they are more ready than ever to lead productive lives. 

Community life solves the problem of loneliness as well as problems with meal preparation many elderly adults experience, often resorting to frozen meals or fast food. MorningStar residents enjoy beautifully prepared meals, served restaurant-style and eaten in a relaxed, community setting. No longer driving? No worries as we offer scheduled transportation to area shopping as well as trips to doctors and running errands.  

We also know it is important for seniors to continue to learn and contribute, which is why we offer a wide range of meaningful wellness programs and activities. Moreover, if we do not have a program or activities that attract your interest or offer a hobby you would love to explore, we encourage you to start a club.  

We are located in desirable San Jose, CA near medical facilities, restaurants, shopping and other services. Please contact us for more information and to schedule a tour. We look forward to hearing from you. 

MorningStar has considered it a privilege and responsibility to “cast a new light” on senior living, inspired and empowered by our unique mission: to honor, to value, to invest. Our passionate commitment to serving seniors has earned us a reputation for satisfaction that is second to none. Contact us for more information about the finest independent living, assisted living and memory care in San Jose.

Reduce the Risk of Osteoporosis With a Healthy Diet and Regular Exercise

Endocrinologist Kendall Moseley, MD, medical director of the Johns Hopkins Metabolic Bone & Osteoporosis Center, says most women do not know anything about their bone health. A recent survey from the National Osteoporosis Foundation backs up that sentiment finding around 94 percent of women do not worry about their skeletons. However, they add they should, as one in five women under 30 already have osteopenia, which is a step above full osteoporosis. The good news is there are things you can do to protect your frame and avoid the things that are not good for bone health.  

Experts say our bones constantly break down and rebuild every 10 years resulting in a new skeleton. The problem lies in the fact that after the age of 30, our bodies start to lose more bone than they make. Women’s estrogen levels also begin to drop around 30, which is another protector of women’s bone health. 

An unbalanced diet or severely restricting calories in an effort to stay thin or lose weight can be another cause of low bone density; and too much caffeine, salt and alcohol all interfere with retaining calcium, our primary bone builder. Even some medications deplete calcium and include certain anti-depressants and contraceptives so be sure to ask your doctor about side effects of medications you take. It is important for women to include dairy products or foods like beans and nuts to increase their calcium intake. Protein from plants and lean meats are also good ways to get calcium.

Along with a good diet, exercise is an important element of keeping bones strong. While some exercises are better than others, scientists recommend weight bearing exercises like walking and running as good ways to build strong bones. Strength training exercises may be the ultimate bone builder and include things like pushups and squats or kickboxing.  

MorningStar at West San Jose is a beautiful 55+ community offering assisted living and memory care.  From healthy daily meals to wellness programs and activities, we have a whole range of services and amenities to ensure residents’ comfort and wellbeing.  Please contact us or visit our website for more information.

MorningStar’s foundation is based on the mission to honor God, value seniors and invest in our staff to create a unique senior living experience.  Set in a warm, loving atmosphere with beautiful surroundings and resort-style amenities, we provide the finest independent living, assisted living in San Jose.  Please contact our team to inquire about availability, pricing or to set up a tour.

Tips for Seniors to Help Manage Stress

While old age may eliminate the stress younger people feel raising a family and building a career, there are a number of reasons seniors are stressed. This includes things like managing chronic illnesses, losing a spouse, taking on the role of a caregiver, and realizing the limitations of old age. Seniors’ stress can also rise due to a decline in income, lack of a sense of purpose or emotional support, a loss of independence, and a shrinking social life and loneliness.  

The Harvard Medical School says older adults should not ignore chronic stress as it can increase the risk of heart disease, high blood pressure and high blood sugar levels as well as cause insomnia. Dr. Ann Webster, a health psychologist at the Benson-Henry Institute for Mind Body Medicine at Harvard-affiliated Massachusetts General Hospital, says, “It can make people feel more anxious, worried, depressed or frustrated.” Physical symptoms that may be caused by chronic stress include things like: tension headaches, back pain, indigestion, heart palpitations, poor concentration, indecisiveness, crying and irritability. 

Experts say regular physical activity may help relieve stress symptoms. If you are infirm, check with your healthcare provider for safe, effective exercises. Tai chi and chair yoga are two examples that can be beneficial to help improve balance, raise your mood and reduce stress.  

If you are dealing with bereavement, consider joining a grief support group. If you are lonely, consider getting a pet. Studies show pet ownership can lower stress but be sure to take into account the physical and financial responsibilities of caring for a pet. 

Other stress reducing activities include mind-body programs designed specifically for seniors. Mind-body wellness encompasses not just physical fitness but also emotional stability, mental agility, and spiritual fulfillment and strives to achieve a balanced lifestyle. Some programs focus on helping those with chronic pain or specific ailments. If you suspect chronic stress is making your life more difficult, experts recommend talking to your healthcare provider. 

MorningStar of Parker’s senior living is the area’s most sought-after community for maintenance-free living; spacious suites; 5-star dining, resort-style amenities and meaningful wellness programs and activities. Our fashionable building has 49 independent living suites and 54 assisted living suites in a choice of configurations including three styles of penthouses as large as 1,609 square-feet. 

For seniors with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases, our distinct Reflections Neighborhood’s memory care takes the personal attention and services of assisted living to another level. Features include 24-hour care, an experienced staff, Montessori-based therapies;and consistent, supportive companionship to enable residents to enhance quality of life. Contact us to learn more about our retirement communities options including independent living, assisted living and memory care.

Activities to Enhance Your Brainpower

Our brains go through both structural and functional changes as we age, which can cause a decline in our cognitive abilities and memory. Moreover, certain lifestyle factors as well as genetics can accelerate the aging process. Carrie Ditzel, PhD., director of geropsychology and neuropsychology at Baker Street Behavioral Health, explains, “Much like muscle and that old saying ‘if you don’t use it, you lose it,’ using your brain can help protect it, to an extent, from some typical memory decline and slowing.” 

So, what should we do to help keep our brain as healthy as possible? Experts say it is helpful to routinely engage in stimulating, challenging activities as well as to keep moving. Rather than just looking at exercise as something to aid in weight loss, it should be something we do to keep our bodies running better and help us feel more energetic. Choose exercises you enjoy including senior friendly ones such as Tai chi, yoga, swimming or hiking/walking. 

Studies also show listening to different types of music can strengthen auditory skills and improve attention and memory. Nadia Kumentas, NMD, a Doctor of Naturopathic Medicine with Muse, says “Engaging with various styles of music has been shown to have multifaceted effects on both emotional and cognitive functions of the brain.” Music can be used to make exercise more fun, help us wind down and relax, or tune in to our creative side. 

Keeping up with friends and family is another easy way to engage our brains as it makes us feel part of a tribe and gives us a sense of purpose. Sitting down with a good book also makes us focus our concentration as we need to follow the book’s plot line, characters and events. 

Lastly, don’t forget about hobbies, as they help us wind down, allow us to get in touch with our creative side and offer a good excuse for “me time.” The possibilities are almost endless but include playing an instrument, taking a course, gardening and playing games.

MorningStar at West San Jose is proud to provide luxury independent and assisted living in beautiful surroundings. Residents enjoy maintenance-free living, an array of on-site amenities, wellness programs and a calendar full of activities. For seniors with memory loss diseases, our Reflections Neighborhood provides holistic care in a safe, nurturing environment.  Please contact us or visit our website for more information.

MorningStar’s foundation is based on the mission to honor God, value seniors and invest in our staff to create a unique senior living experience.  Set in a warm, loving atmosphere with beautiful surroundings and resort-style amenities, we provide the finest independent living, assisted living and memory care in San Jose.  Please contact our team to inquire about retirement communities availability, pricing or to set up a tour.

Coping With Loneliness in Later Life: Practical Ways to Feel More Connected

Feeling lonely is not a sign that you have done anything wrong. It is a human response to wanting more connection than you currently have. In later life, changes like retirement, health shifts, or the loss of friends and partners can narrow social circles. The important thing is recognizing the feeling and taking small, doable steps to invite more contact and meaning into your days in assisted living Portland.

Acknowledge what you are feeling

Loneliness often carries shame, which makes it harder to talk about. Simply naming it to yourself is a helpful starting point. You might say, “I am missing company” or “I wish I had more people to talk to.” This honesty makes it easier to decide what might help.

Start with small, regular contact

Grand gestures are not required. Short, consistent interactions often make the biggest difference. Consider:

• Calling one friend or family member on the same day each week

• Chatting briefly with a neighbor or staff member when you see them

• Joining a small group, such as a card game or discussion circle

If large gatherings feel overwhelming, focus on one to one conversations that allow you to really listen and be heard.

Combine activities with connection

Shared tasks make talking easier. You might:

• Cook or bake with someone, even if you mostly direct from a chair

• Work on a puzzle or craft project side by side

• Take a short walk together, at a pace that feels comfortable

These activities create contact without forcing constant conversation.

Use community and technology as tools

Senior centers, retirement communities, faith groups, and libraries often host programs that welcome newcomers. Many also offer virtual options. Video calls or online groups can be surprisingly warm when you use them to see familiar faces or explore shared interests. In places like retirement home Portland, staff may help residents set up calls or join online classes that match their hobbies.

Care for your inner world

Connection with others matters, but so does your relationship with yourself. Journaling, reading, listening to music, or practicing simple relaxation exercises can help you feel more grounded on quieter days. If loneliness is affecting your sleep, appetite, or interest in daily life, talking with a counselor or doctor is another form of connection that can lead to real relief.

Loneliness will likely visit from time to time, but it does not have to stay in charge. Small choices, repeated steadily, can open doors to new friendships and a greater sense of belonging.

Healthy Snacking Ideas for Seniors: Easy Bites That Support Steady Energy

Snacks can be more than quick treats between meals. For seniors, in assisted living the right snacks help keep blood sugar steady, maintain muscle, and prevent the sluggish feeling that comes from long gaps without food. The goal is to choose bites that combine protein, fiber, and healthy fats, rather than relying on sugary or highly processed options that cause energy to spike and crash.

What makes a snack “steady energy”

A balanced snack typically includes:

• A source of protein to support muscles and fullness

• Fiber to slow digestion and support gut health

• A small amount of healthy fat for satisfaction

These elements help you feel comfortably satisfied rather than stuffed and can make it easier to avoid overeating at the next meal in assisted living Idaho Falls.

Simple snack ideas that work for older adults

You do not need complicated recipes. A few easy, mix and match options include:

• Apple slices with a spoonful of peanut or almond butter

• Plain yogurt topped with berries and a sprinkle of oats or nuts

• Whole grain crackers with cheese or hummus

• A small handful of unsalted nuts with a piece of fruit

• Cottage cheese with pineapple or sliced peaches

• Carrot sticks, cucumber rounds, or bell pepper strips with hummus

• A hard boiled egg and a slice of whole grain toast

These combinations are easy to prepare, chew, and digest, which is important if appetite or dental issues are present.

Planning ahead makes healthy choices easier

Keeping a few key items on hand removes guesswork. Stocking the pantry and fridge with yogurt, fruit, vegetables, nuts, and whole grain options means that when hunger appears, there is something ready besides cookies or chips. Portioning nuts, trail mix, or cutting vegetables into small containers can prevent overeating and makes snacks easier to grab.

Paying attention to liquids

Sometimes what feels like hunger is actually thirst. Pairing snacks with water or herbal tea supports hydration, which is essential for digestion, joint comfort, and clear thinking. Sugary drinks are less helpful, since they add calories without much nutrition and can make blood sugar harder to manage.

Adapting snacks to your day

Think about when your energy tends to dip. Some people need a midmorning snack, others do better with a small bite in the afternoon or evening. Light snacks can also support medication schedules that require food. In many senior living communities, staff help residents coordinate snack times around medicine, activities, and personal preferences to keep energy levels more even.

Choosing nourishing snacks is not about giving up treats forever. It is about making most of your between meal bites work for you, so that your body has steady fuel to support movement, mood, and the activities you enjoy.

Hearing Health for Seniors: Signs You Should Not Ignore and What to Do Next

Hearing often changes gradually, which is why many seniors are surprised when they realize how much sound they have been missing. It is easy to adapt by turning up the volume or avoiding noisy places, but these quiet adjustments can hide problems that deserve attention. Caring for hearing is about more than catching every word. It protects safety, independence, and relationships in senior living.

Everyday signs your hearing needs a check

Some clues are obvious, others are subtle. It may be time to pay attention if you:

• Frequently ask people to repeat themselves

• Feel that others are mumbling, especially in group settings

• Need the television or radio much louder than others prefer

• Struggle to follow conversations in restaurants or crowded rooms

• Hear ringing, buzzing, or hissing in one or both ears

Another sign is withdrawal. If you find yourself avoiding social events because following the conversation is too tiring or embarrassing, hearing changes may be part of the reason.

Why it is important not to wait

Untreated hearing loss can do more than make life inconvenient. It has been linked to increased risks of social isolation, depression, and cognitive decline. When you cannot hear clearly, the brain has to work harder to fill in the gaps, which can be exhausting. You may also miss important sounds such as doorbells, alarms, or traffic, which affects safety.

First steps when you notice a problem

Start by mentioning your concerns to your primary care provider in assisted living. They may check for simple issues such as earwax buildup and refer you to an audiologist for a full hearing test. These tests are painless and usually involve listening to tones and repeating words. The results show what type of hearing loss you have and how mild or advanced it is.

Options for improving communication

Depending on the results, you might:

• Try hearing aids that amplify specific frequencies

• Use assistive devices such as amplified phones or TV listening systems

• Ask family and friends to face you when they speak and avoid talking from another room

Modern hearing aids are smaller and more comfortable than many people expect, and they can be adjusted over time as your hearing changes.

Creating a hearing friendly environment  

Small changes at home can make conversation easier. Reduce background noise by turning off the television during talks, choose softer furnishings that absorb sound, and make sure rooms are well lit so you can see faces clearly. In places like assisted living Idaho Falls, staff and families often work together to choose quieter spaces for group activities and encourage clear, respectful communication with residents who have hearing challenges.

Staying proactive about hearing health

Scheduling regular hearing checks, just like eye exams, helps you track changes before they significantly affect daily life. If you already wear hearing aids, keep them clean, charged, and maintained. Paying attention to hearing is one more way to look after your overall well being and stay engaged with the people and experiences that matter to you.

Making Medical Appointments Easier in Assisted Living

Keeping track of medical visits can start to feel like a full time job. Specialists, follow ups, lab work, therapy visits, and regular checkups all have their own schedules and instructions. For many older adults, this is one of the biggest sources of stress. In a well organized assisted living Portland community, much of that pressure is lifted so residents can focus on feeling their best rather than managing calendars and car rides.

Taking the pressure off scheduling

Instead of juggling dates and times on your own, staff typically keep a shared record of upcoming appointments. They help coordinate:

• Routine visits, like primary care or dental checkups

• Specialist appointments, such as cardiology or eye care

• Therapy sessions for strength, balance, or recovery

On site health support when possible

Many independent living communities arrange for certain services to take place right where residents live. This reduces travel time and makes it easier to address health needs before they turn into bigger concerns. On site options may include:

• Regular wellness checks from visiting nurses or physicians

• Physical or occupational therapy sessions in a dedicated room or gym

• Help with sorting, timing, and safely storing medications

Having these services nearby means questions can often be answered quickly, and small changes in health can be noticed sooner.

Getting to and from outside appointments

Not every service can come to the community, so transportation becomes part of the support system. Staff typically help residents:

• Arrange rides in community vehicles or partner services

• Plan enough time for check in and paperwork

• Get to the right office or clinic and back again safely

For example, a resident who sees an eye specialist across town may be picked up at the front door, dropped off at the clinic, and returned home afterward, with staff letting family know how the visit went. This removes the worry of driving, parking, or navigating busy medical buildings alone.

Keeping families in the loop

Good communication helps everyone feel more secure. Many communities:

• Let families know about upcoming appointments if the resident agrees

• Share important updates after visits, especially when medications or care plans change

• Provide contact points so questions can be answered quickly

When a resident has a procedure or new diagnosis, families often appreciate getting a call or message that explains what happened and what to expect next. This is especially reassuring for relatives who live far away and cannot attend every visit.

A supportive framework around health

In settings such as senior apartments Portland and similar communities, the goal is to build a framework that makes medical care feel manageable instead of overwhelming. Scheduling help, on site services, coordinated transportation, and clear communication all work together so residents are less focused on logistics and more focused on how they feel day to day.

With steady support, routine health care becomes another part of life that is handled with care, calm, and a sense of partnership.

Got Five Extra Minutes a Day?

We know exercise is important especially as we age; but surveys show too many people have trouble sticking to a routine and/or think they don’t have enough time to do it. A recent study from the CDC, which recommends at last 150 minutes of moderate activity or 75 minutes of intense activity weekly, found almost one-third of people are not getting enough weekly physical activity to maintain health. Experts explain physical activity is essential for reducing the risk of serious diseases including cardiovascular, diabetes, cancer, hypertension, obesity, depression, and osteoporosis; as well as premature death. 

If you fall into the group that is reluctant to exercise regularly, a study recently published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine may help get you moving. It reports spending at least two 5-minute periods a day in a quick physical activity session could boost heart and lung fitness and enhance cardiorespiratory fitness. One of the authors of the study, Miguel Ángel Rodríguez, a doctoral researcher in clinical research at the University of Oviedo, Spain, told Medical News Today, “When people are asked why they don’t exercise, the most common answers are lack of time and lack of motivation. Exercise snacks directly address both: They’re short, flexible, and easy to fit into daily routines.” Researchers hope more people will stick to this type of exercise regime than other more time-consuming programs. 

The study examined data from 11 studies done from around the world including Canada, Australia, China and the United Kingdom. The participants (approximately one-third men and two-thirds women), ranged in ages from 18-75 years. The type of exercises participants did included stair climbing, leg-focused strength exercises and tai chi. The authors say the wide adherence to maintaining the program was notable. Unlike many studies with a much lower buy-in, 83% of the participants stuck to the program for the whole period of time. Results showed statistically significant improvements in cardiorespiratory fitness (heart and lung function) in younger physically inactive adults, and in muscular endurance in older adults. The message taken away from the studies is that a little exercise is better than no exercise at all. 

MorningStar of Parker’s contemporary community offers luxury  assisted living, and memory care in a variety of configurations, floorplans and even buildings. Along with fine dining and resort-style amenities, we provide a vast array of wellness programs and activities designed to keep residents moving and having fun. For adults with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia, Reflections Neighborhood has a total of 43 memory care suites in a choice of studio or one-bedroom units. Contact us to set up an in-person tour of our retirement communities to see for yourself what the finest senior living in Parker looks like. 

Personalized Care Plans: How Communities Tailor Support

Moving into an assisted living community often brings up mixed feelings. There is relief in having extra help nearby, but also worries about losing independence or feeling like “just another resident.” Personalized care plans are one way communities address that. Instead of treating everyone the same, they build a plan that fits each person’s abilities, preferences, and daily rhythm so life still feels like their own.

Starting with the person, not the paperwork

A good care plan begins with listening. When someone arrives, staff spend time learning about more than medical history. They ask about hobbies, morning habits, favorite foods, social preferences, and what a good day looks like. Family members are often invited into the conversation to fill in details and share stories.

The goal is to understand:

• Where support is truly needed

• What the resident values most

• How to respect long standing routines

This becomes the foundation for choices about timing, type of help, and how much space to give for independence.

What a care plan usually includes

No two plans look exactly alike, but most touch on a few core areas.

Daily rhythm

Some people prefer slow, quiet mornings. Others feel best when they start the day early and active. Care plans can reflect:

• Preferred wake up and bedtime

• Mealtime patterns

• Interests such as gardening, reading, games, or spiritual practices

Health and mobility

Medical details matter, but they are woven in gently. Plans often outline:

• Medication schedules and how reminders are given

• Support needed for bathing, dressing, or transfers

• Dietary needs and any swallowing or chewing concerns

Social and emotional support

Well being is not only physical. Care plans can highlight:

• How often a resident enjoys groups versus one on one time

• Whether they like busy events, quiet corners, or both

• Ways staff can comfort them during harder moments, such as preferred music or conversation topics

The best plans read less like a chart and more like a portrait of how to help a person feel like themselves.

Balancing help and independence

A thoughtful care plan aims to provide just enough support, not more than necessary. For one resident in senior living, that might mean help with managing medications and shower safety, but full independence with dressing and choosing activities. For another, it could mean hands on help with most physical tasks while still honoring their preferences about clothing, meals, and visitors.

This balance:

• Preserves confidence by letting residents do what they can

• Reduces frustration by easing tasks that have become stressful

• Gives families reassurance that safety and dignity are both respected

How families can contribute

Families know histories and habits that may not show up in a medical file. When you are invited into care planning, it helps to share:

• Routines that matter, such as afternoon naps or nightly phone calls

• Long term interests that could guide activities

• Triggers that increase anxiety and strategies that tend to calm

Check in regularly as things change. A care plan is meant to be a living document that adjusts with time, health, and preferences, not something that stays frozen after moving into assisted living Idaho Falls.

Managing Seasonal Allergies as a Senior: Simple Ways to Breathe Easier

Seasonal allergies are common at any age, yet they can feel especially draining later in life. The good news is that a few steady habits can make symptoms much more manageable, so you can enjoy the weather instead of hiding from it in retirement home Portland.

Why allergies can feel different as you age

Bodies do not respond to pollen and dust the same way at 75 as they did at 25. The immune system may react more strongly to certain triggers. Nasal passages can become drier and more sensitive. Other health conditions, or medications that cause dryness or congestion, can make allergy symptoms feel heavier.

Smart ways to cut down exposure

You may not be able to avoid allergens completely in retirement communities, but you can lower how much you breathe in.

• Watch pollen times: Levels are often highest in the morning and on dry, windy days. If symptoms run strong, try planning walks and outdoor activities for later in the afternoon or after rain.

• Keep windows closed on high count days: It can be tempting to let in fresh air, but open windows invite pollen inside. Use fans or air conditioning instead when counts are high.

• Rinse allergens away: After being outdoors, change clothes and, when possible, wash your face or take a quick shower. This helps remove pollen from skin and hair so it does not follow you onto pillows and furniture.

Making your indoor space friendlier for your nose

Since you may spend more time inside during allergy season, it helps if your living space works with you.

• Air purifiers: A purifier with a HEPA filter can trap pollen, dust, and dander. Keeping one in the bedroom is often especially helpful.

• Regular cleaning: Light dusting, vacuuming with a HEPA filter, and washing bedding weekly in warm water reduce allergen buildup.

• Pet care: If you share your home with animals, regular brushing and bathing (ideally by someone else) can lower dander levels.

Everyday habits that support comfort

Simple routines can help your body cope better with allergens.

• Drink enough fluids: Water, herbal tea, and broths keep mucus thinner and easier to clear.

• Use saline rinses or sprays: A basic saline nasal spray can gently flush out irritants and ease dryness.

• Talk with your doctor about medications: Over the counter antihistamines, nasal sprays, or eye drops may help, but they should be checked against your current medicines and health conditions.

Gentle natural supports you can try

Some people like to pair medical care with simple home support.

• Warm herbal teas like peppermint, ginger, or chamomile can soothe a scratchy throat and offer a bit of steam for the sinuses.

• Local honey in moderation may feel comforting to the throat, and some people feel it helps them tolerate local pollen better, though results vary.

• Steam inhalation with a few drops of eucalyptus in hot water (kept at a safe distance) can ease a stuffy feeling for some.

Seasonal allergies may not disappear, but with a mix of smart habits, supportive tools, and good communication with your care team in assisted living Portland, they do not have to run the whole season. 

Concerns Seniors Have About Community Living

Moving from your current home to a CCRC (continuing care retirement community), such as a senior community offering independent living, assisted living or memory care, can be a complex, emotionally-charged decision. Seniors worry they may lose their privacy and freedom of choice; or weaken their bonds with friends and family. Other concerns include: is it a smart decision financially, will the move increase their stress, and are they really ready to move?

To address these concerns, hearing from actual senior living residents is helpful. Age Wave, a company specializing in issues related to the aging population, surveyed how older adults feel about senior living. It examined the decision-making process including priorities, hopes, concerns, and questions of those surveyed as well as conducted interviews with residents and management in senior housing.  

The first topic the survey looked at is whether a senior’s current home is in reality the best place to retire in. Age Wave said results show a move to senior living can in many cases provide more freedom, more convenience, better care and less worry for older adults.

One sentiment expressed by many in senior living communities is that they appreciate the fact that if their health needs change, or those of their spouse, the community is equipped to deal with the needs without necessitating a move. Also, if they need to see a doctor, they like that they can just schedule a ride to their appointment.

Another myth is that people fear they will no longer have purpose in their life in a senior community. However, according to the Age Wave survey, people in CCRC reported at this time of life perhaps there is a better purpose than doing household chores. Residents expressed their satisfaction in the freedom to explore new pathways – “from learning how to paint, volunteering in the community, becoming an expert on healthy cooking, authoring a book, reaching new levels of fitness, to developing rewarding new friendships.”

Sometimes, seeing the costs of senior living, people worry it is too expensive. Again Age Wave says several misconceptions can lead seniors to miscalculate the cost of staying in their home to community living. Once you add in all the services offered by senior housing, including peace of mind of predictable budgeting without the unforeseeable costs of remaining in your home; many discover it is a better bargain.  

At MorningStar at West San Jose, independent and assisted living residents enjoy full lives with a wide range of luxury amenities, best-in-class dining, wellness programs and activities.  Our private suites are available in a choice of floor plans and configurations; and deliver style and comfort. For those living with Alzheimer’s and dementia-related diseases, we offer memory care suites in our distinct Reflections Neighborhood. Please contact us to schedule a tour of our beautiful home.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Please contact us for more information about the finest senior apartments, assisted living and memory care in San Jose.

One of the Benefits of Walking for Exercise is Improved Balance

Many seniors know a fall could threaten their independence and way of life. Common injuries include to the head, hip fractures, and in the most extreme cases death. Experts explain balance declines as we age as well as can be affected by medications and medical conditions, lack of flexibility and uncorrected vision problems. This is why medical experts encourage seniors to work on maintaining and improving balance.

The Harvard Medical School says one of the simplest ways to improve balance is with exercises like walking, strength training and workouts targeted to improve stability. However, before beginning any new exercise regime, consult your healthcare provider.  

When beginning a walking plan, whether you are active or sedentary, experts say to remember minutes walked are more important than number of miles. If you are unused to exercise, start slowly. Also, wear good walking shoes, and if you normally use a cane or walker, use it. Experts say it is safer to walk with a buddy and to bring along a cell phone. Walk in a place with an even surface, and especially in the beginning, stay close to home.  Once you start feeling more confident, add more minutes to your routine.

For seniors who are already walking, try adding a few more minutes to your program or a more challenging route. Experts say the overall goal should be to do at least 150 minutes a week. To add strength training exercises and workouts to improve balance, ask your doctor for advice on how to get started.

At MorningStar at West San Jose, residents enjoy carefree retirement years as we handle the maintenance and provide onsite amenities, hospitality services and a community of friends. In addition to our fitness center, we offer exercise classes specifically designed for seniors as well as organized group walks to promote regular physical activity.  If you are looking for luxury senior living in San Jose, we encourage you to consider MorningStar.

MorningStar offers the very best in assisted living with our distinct mission statement of “to honor, to value, to invest.”  Our foundation is built on honoring God, valuing all seniors and investing in our staff to create an atmosphere that promotes a healthy, engaged lifestyle.  Please contact us to learn more about the finest assisted living in San Jose.

Stay Sharp by Learning New Things

How long has it been since you really made the effort to learn something new? As we age, many of us can get stuck in a rut. However, opening our minds to new ideas and trying new activities can provide seniors with a renewed interest in life and help keep the brain sharp.

The choice of hobbies and activities for retirees is endless and includes dusting off old skills or learning something entirely new. Things like painting and drawing classes can be done in person or online. The same goes for listening to lectures, joining a book club or writing workshop, and learning a foreign language. If you need more computer skills or would like to know more about social media, join a class and get started.

If you have always wanted to play an instrument, what are you waiting for? Neuroscientists and music teachers say it is never too late to learn. Scot Hawkins, a piano teacher in Silver Spring, Md., says, “Ability is low on the list of what’s required for adult students. Instead, attitude — especially patience — is everything.” Playing music is a great mental exercise and can help keep brain cells alive that would otherwise wither and die.

Chess, trivia, crossword and jigsaw puzzles as well as strategy board games help sharpen our cognitive skills as do various computer and video games. Other suggestions of engaging activities include trips to local museums, concerts, and plays. 

Have you begun the search for independent or assisted living? If so, let us introduce you to MorningStar at West San Jose.  Our monthly calendar helps residents live life to the fullest with a wide range of activities and wellness programs including exercise classes, games, entertainment and special events. Please contact us to learn what sets us apart from other senior living in San Jose and why MorningStar is a great place to call home.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Please contact us for more information about the finest retirement communities in San Jose.

Simple Things to Do to Keep Your Brain Sharp

Many seniors may be overwhelmed with all of the recent information on how to protect ourselves from cognitive decline. However, some experts suggest it may be simpler than we think and actually doesn’t require a huge commitment of time or energy from us. 

One such tip comes from AARP, which reviewed several studies that found a 5-minute walk after a meal can improve brain health. The studies’ report a light-intensity stroll after eating made a positive impact on reducing blood sugar spikes and insulin levels. As diabetes is connected to our brain health, prevention is important. 

Harvard-trained neurologist Andrew E. Budson, MD, Professor of Neurology, Boston University and co-author of Seven Steps to Managing Your Aging Memory, mentions two supplements seniors are often found to be deficient in – vitamin B and vitamin D. He says Vitamin B helps to prevent cognitive decline by supporting the function of neurons. While vitamin D has been shown to be low in those diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, Budson says the cause is still somewhat mysterious. He recommends asking your healthcare provider for a blood test to see if you have low levels of B or D, and then following their advice regarding supplements as they may interact with other medications you are on.    

Budson and his colleague, Dale Bredesen, MD, an internationally-recognized expert in the mechanisms of neurodegenerative diseases, additionally explained studies of people who did old-fashioned crossword puzzles vs digital games scored better cognitively and showed less brain shrinkage on MRI results than digital gamers. They believe crossword puzzles may force the person to stretch their brain with different clues over and over while digital games are more predictable. 

Since we know sleep is an important component to brain health, the neurologists suggest wearing a smart watch to bed to track your sleep. They explain there are four main goals to track that include:

• Overall getting seven hours of sleep a night to help boost brain power.

• 90 minutes of REM, because that’s “when the brain lays down new memories.” 

• 60 minutes of deep sleep per night. “This is when you’re cleansing and detoxing the brain, and is an important stage to relax the brain and reduce stress.”

• Blood oxygen level of at least 94% saturation while sleeping. “You want to have good oxygen,” he adds. “So many people don’t realize their levels are dropping into the 80s—we even see people whose levels fall into the 70s at night, and they don’t realize how bad that is for their brains.”

At MorningStar of Parker, we provide the area’s finest retirement communities, assisted living and memory care to enrich lives and allow residents a full calendar of options that inspire, connect and entertain. Our newest contemporary-style building offers 49 independent living suites and 54 assisted living suites in a choice of configurations including three styles of penthouses as large as 1,609 square-feet. For seniors living with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases, our distinct Reflections Neighborhood has 49 memory care suites that include inviting common areas and clear wayfinding to encourage independence. Contact us to schedule a personalized tour of our beautiful senior living community. 

Source: womansworld.com/wellness/dementia-prevention-tips-from-a-top-neurologist

Tips for Talking to Family About Financial Wishes

Set the tone before the talk

Money conversations land better when everyone knows the purpose. Frame the meeting in assisted living Idaho Falls as future-proofing, not a crisis. Pick a calm day, set a time limit, and choose a quiet spot. Open with a clear intention such as, “I want to make sure my wishes are written down so no one has to guess.”

Prepare the essentials

Gather documents and a short summary so the discussion stays focused. Aim to bring:

• A current list of accounts, beneficiaries, and automatic payments

• Durable power of attorney and health care proxy names

• Will or trust highlights and where originals live

• Insurance policies, safe deposit box info, and digital logins plan

Keep copies in a single, labeled folder. Offer to share read-only access for items stored digitally.

Explain your “why” in plain language

Families worry less when they understand reasons. If you prefer conservative investments, say you value sleep-at-night stability. If you want charitable gifts or education funds, link those choices to a story. Clarity prevents second-guessing when emotions run high.

Choose decision-makers on purpose

Name primary and backup agents for financial and health decisions. Describe what “acting in my best interest” looks like to you. Make roles time-bound if helpful, such as “Alex manages bills during travel months; Pat handles tax prep each spring.”

Build a simple action map

Boil next steps into a one-page checklist: update beneficiaries, notarize powers of attorney, consolidate a small account, or set alerts for large withdrawals. Assign owners and target dates so momentum is visible.

Address living costs openly

Share your monthly baseline and any known irregular expenses. Note what would trigger a change, such as selling a vehicle or shifting to a smaller home. If you are exploring future options like senior living, explain your priorities around location, social life, budget, and care preferences so loved ones can advocate confidently.

Prevent common friction points

• Set a spending threshold that always requires a second signature

• Document gift plans to avoid confusion among siblings

• Write a brief letter of intent that explains values behind choices

Keep the conversation alive

Schedule a 30-minute check-in every six months while in assisted living Idaho. Treat it like maintenance: quick updates, one paperwork task, and a small celebration for what’s done. Store the checklist and key documents in one visible place, and tell the family where it is. A steady rhythm turns a hard topic into a shared plan everyone can follow.

Transitioning Mom or Dad to Assisted Living

Moving can be exhausting and many of us have mixed feelings about the change – both looking forward to a new adventure and sad to leave our old life behind. Now imagine what your parents may be feeling as they leave a familiar home for an assisted living community. The change can be even more difficult if they are going into memory care. 

Experts say there are things family members can do to help ease the transition and make it a more positive experience. First, involve your loved one in the decision-making process as much as possible. Discuss the various benefits of each community regarding suites, amenities, food service and the helpfulness of the staff and administrators. Also, read online reviews from other families and residents; and take advantage of in-person tours.

Once the decision is made on a particular community, now help mom or dad decide on what to bring to their new space, keeping in mind it is probably smaller than their current home. Consider an item based on its practicality, footprint, and your loved one’s feelings toward it. Be sure to include personal mementos such as family pictures and a few of their most cherished treasures he/she has collected through the years. Other furniture and items can be given to family members, sold or donated to charity.

Experts advise adult children to play an active role in helping a loved one settle into their new home and to remember it is an emotional adjustment. In-person visits help as do phone calls to let them know you are still thinking of them. 

At MorningStar at West San Jose, we are experienced in helping residents make a smooth transition to our community by working alongside our residents and their families to listen to concerns and help solve any problems. MorningStar’s assisted living residents enjoy stylish suites, all-day dining, wellness programs, activities and amenities including a theatre, fitness center, salon, bistro and beautiful outdoor areas.  

Please contact us to learn more about our luxury senior living in San Jose, CA.  Not only are we happy to answer any questions you may have but our website provides information on our company’s history, vision, and mission.

MorningStar has considered it a privilege and responsibility to “cast a new light” on senior living, inspired and empowered by our unique mission: to honor, to value, to invest. Our passionate commitment to serving seniors has earned us a reputation for satisfaction that is second to none. Contact us for more information about the finest independent living, assisted living and memory care in San Jose.