Help to Declutter Without the Guilt
As we grow older, many of us realize we have way too much “stuff” and may need to get rid of things to accommodate a move to a smaller place, or wish to simplify our lives with fewer material goods. However, the problem with good intentions is we are overwhelmed with all of the things we feel a sentimental attachment to even if we no longer need it or perhaps ever like it. It may have been a gift from a beloved child or friend or something bought on a special trip. It can also be something we just paid too much for and feel we need to hang on to it.
A recent article from Apartment Therapy reminds people to remember once something has fulfilled its purpose and no longer serves us, brings up bad memories or feels like clutter; it’s time to consider letting it go regardless of how you got it in the first place. They offer some tips on how to make those decisions easier.
The first recommendation is to start with sentimental items stored away in cabinets or boxes. Upon seeing something again, you may realize the item no longer holds the same power it once did and you no longer need it. If you are undecided, put it away in a box to be looked at again in 6 months. Things to consider when keeping items are do they bring you happiness just by looking at them? Another thing to pare down is old pictures. Making a smaller album of the best of the best pics probably means you will look at them more often. Give away duplicates to other family members, and digitalize the pictures you don’t want to throw away.
The same goes with old vacation souvenirs. Instead of a whole boxful, keep one or two things and discard the rest. Too many mugs? Keep the best of them and donate the others. For things like sentimental t-shirts, baby clothes or ticket stubs, repurpose them. Ideas include making a quilt out of beloved clothing and attractively framing your ticket stubs. What you plan to save, put it away in a labeled keepsake box.
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